It has been an eventful time since my last blog. Lots of things happening, lots of things to do. A fairly busy week this week, even though I am on holiday. People to see and places to be, or is that people to be and places to see............

The reason for a weeks holiday is the fact that it is my XX birthday (number withheld for your safety). I had a full week to take before the end of March and it seemed as good a time as any. It is a good job I am off this week as the whole moving situation has taken off this week. Had one viewing so far and liked the flat, so me and my friend agreed to take it. It is now up to the landlord to decide between us and another couple of people. Hopefully we will find out tomorrow. It is the perfect location for both of us - right on the beach and overlooking the sea. Perfection!

I have just spent my third weekend out on the trot. Drinks and a film at a friends a couple of weekends ago, Go-Karting and clubbing last weekend and a Monty Python marathon and curry this weekend. I am now poor until I get paid on Wednesday due to this plethora of socialising! Hey, I have enjoyed every minute of it. It has been totally worth it!

Tuesday. Another visit from her. A new look as well. Shoulder length curly blonde hair. I personally think it is a good look for her. No one else has given her an opinion yet. I think she wants to see what people think next weekend. She may be going to a mutual friends birthday drinks,but she is not sure yet. I am hoping her days of indecision are coming to an end. She really needs to get out and show herself to the world - in daylight anyway!

Even work is going OK. Had a good performance review, had some good feedback from other managers and I am missed from my old place of work. Must be doing something right. It is just a shame that the one person who can help my career is about as useful as a chocolate teapot.  I cannot really do any more to prove that I am capable of doing above and beyond the scope of my job roll. Ho Hum!

This will also be a good week for me to work on my gender conundrum. I have amassed a great deal of information to digest and a lot of questions to ask myself. I have had a lot of feedback from my friends - some positive and some negative. I have taken everything on board and hopefully I can clear the path ahead of me further. I will let you know how I fair later in the week.